Okay👍? Not okay👎?

Hello amigos!
Here I am with yet another blog but lil late than it used to take!
Why was there a break for a continuous streak of blogs every month!?
That's what I have to say in this! 
To put it simple, 
I felt like not writing. 
My mind didn't allow me to think. 
I couldn't put down anything on the paper. 
Though I had drafts saved, I didn't want to upload.  
Initially I hv put myself into constant pressure ki
- you are not supposed to be like this. 
-you need to write something for this month's blog. Come on socho! 
-you did not lose anything in ur life. Then what's wrong with you? 
Then I councelled myself 
Do I have an obligation to be okay all the time? 
Don't I have a right to be not okay for kafi long time? 
Couldn't I take my own time to be back with a bang? 
Yes. I was NOT okay! 
Is that okay? 
Absolutely! 
We do have listened to this many times 
"It's okay to not be okay!" 
But I hv seen it quite hard to follow. 
Let us normalise this. 

It's okay! 
To be silent and upset sometimes 
You know 
A calm that weathers all storms! 

It's okay! 
To not to feel fine 
You know
 Wait, Everything falls in a line! 

It's okay! 
To be not able to meet standards 
You know 
That one wrong step you've 
already in your hands 
Now just act, 
Actions speak louder than words. 

It's okay! 
To cry like you never did. 
Girls and even boys! 
You know 
Those tears may turn into happy tears!

It's okay. 
Not to be okay. 
You know 
You need to be real
And not perfect! 

Is that OKAY?! 
. 
. 
#every blog has a story. 
#even mine has sweet nothing. 







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